I muri i ngā tau e waru o te hoko, kua tae mai ahau ki tētahi whakatau tino nui

I muri i te mahi i roto i hoko mō ngā tau e waru, i tae atu ahau ki tētahi whakatau tino nui: ko te whanaungatanga i waenga i te hoko me ngā kaiwhakarato he rite tonu ki te whanaungatanga i waenga i te marena!

1. I te hoko, me whakawhanake e koe ngā kaiwhakarato, he rite ki te kimi hoa wahine.

He tokomaha ngā tāngata ka aroha tetahi ki tetahi ina tūtaki rātou, engari i muri mai ka kitea he maha ngā ngoikoretanga o tēnei hoa wahine, ā, ka riri rātou i ia rā, i ia rā. -----Nō reira, i te taahiraa tuatahi o te hoko me te whakawhanake i ngā kaiwhakarato, me whakahaere e koe ētahi atu tirotiro me ngā whakataurite, kōrero tuatahi, kātahi ka aroha, kātahi ka aroha. Engari kāore e taea e koe te aroha, te marena, me te whanake hei kaiwhakarato i te wā tonu ka whakapā atu koe ki a ia. Ka mutu ngā raruraru!

2. I ētahi wā, me whai hononga pai te whanaketanga o te kaiwhakarato

He mea pakarukaru noa iho ngā mea ka hokona e au i ia wā, ā, kāore i te nui te moni. Kāore e taea e au te utu i te wā tika, kāore rānei i te nui te pūtea mahi. Ā, e pai ana ahau ki te haere tahi me te moni nui. Pēnei, me tino hoha te hunga e hokohoko ana, pērā i ētahi tāngata kāore i te nui te pūtea mahi. Ahurea, he rite te kotiro rawakore, kāore i te ātaahua ki te kotiro whai rawa o te whakatupuranga tuarua, ahakoa ka moe ia ki te whānau whai rawa, tera pea ka peia ia i te whānau whai rawa i ngā wā katoa! Me i mōhio ahau ki tēnei, he aha ahau i mahi ai i te tuatahi?

He aha koe e kore ai e moe i tētahi tangata he rite te papamuri ki tōu, ā, he pai tana mahi ki a koe? Ahakoa he tangata mahi pāmu tāne koe, he wahine raranga hoki, he pai ake i te tangi i ia rā, i ia rā. Nō reira, ina tae ki te "hoko rawakore" o ngā "hua rawakore", ka taea e koe te kimi i tētahi kaihokohoko noa hei whakahaere. Kāore e nui ake te utu, engari ka penapena i te nui o te raruraru!

3. I muri i te whakawhanaketanga o ngā kaiwhakarato, me whakatipu rātou

Pērā i muri i te marena, me manawanui tātou tetahi ki tetahi. Kāore he kaiwhakarato e pai ana i te ao tūturu. Whai muri i te whakaū i te mahi tahi me ngā kaiwhakarato, me whai whakangungu me te mātauranga tonu. Ātaahua, ā, kei roto hoki ko te whakarite i tētahi wā hui ki a koe. Me kī atu koe ki a ia, ki te hiahia ia ki te whakarite i tētahi wā hui ki a koe, me tuhi īmēra ia hei whakarite i mua, hei whakatau hoki i ngā kaupapa o te hui. Whai muri i te whakaritenga, me tuhi ngā meneti o te hui, ā, me whai i muri mai;

Hei tauira anō, me mau mai he kape o te ota i te tuku, me tākai te mōkihi, me pēhea te tākai, me ērā atu mea. I roto i te wā, ka taea te whakatipu i tētahi kaiwhakarato pēnei hei "kaituku wahine me te whaea pai", kia taea ai te whakahaere i tāu mahi. He tino māmā noa iho te whakatika.

4. Whai muri i te whanaketanga o ngā kaiwhakarato, me whakawhanake te mahi tahi hōhonu

He maha ngā kaihoko e tūtaki ana ki tētahi hua i ia rā, kātahi ka haere ki ngā kaiwhakarato, engari kāore rātou i te mōhio mēnā kāore rātou e whakawhanake i tētahi kaiwhakarato hou, ka nui ake ngā utu whakahaere. Inaa, kāore e tika kia pēnei. Ka taea e koe te tono atu ki ō kaiwhakarato kia mahi i ngā mea maha. He tino rerekē te tauira whakahaere hoko o nāianei i ngā wā o mua. He maha ngā kamupene e whakaiti ana i te maha o ngā kaiwhakarato, kaua e whakanui ake.

5. Te whakarere anō mēnā ka akiakihia kia pērā

He rangatira nō tāwāhi taku e kī ana kāore ia e mahi tahi, e mahi tahi rānei i ngā wā katoa kāore te kaiwhakarato e mahi pai. He whakaaro marena noa iho tēnei nō Ūropi! Hei Hainamana, kāore au e whakaae ki te whakawehi i ngā kaiwhakarato me te whakaaro ki te whakamutu i te hononga i tētahi wā, nā te mea i raro i ēnei āhuatanga, kāore ētahi atu e pono ki a koe. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whai hononga "kotahi" ki tētahi, ka hiahia rātou ki a au anō hoki.

Nō reira, ehara i te mea ko te utu pai, ko te ratonga pai rānei te kaupapa matua o tana whakaaro. Ko tāna e whakaaro ana ko te pēhea te whiwhi taonga. Ahakoa tērā, kei reira anō ētahi wāhine e hiahia ana kia whakarere hei akiaki i a rātou kia noho hei wahine pai. E ngā hoa hoko, kei te momo wahine e tūtaki ana koutou.